Nothing yet.
And I must say...... I am pissed.
Step-son has been at our home for four days now and not one comment from his dad, or from him about the email. They have talked some here and there I'm not even sure what about??? But I have left them alone to talk amongst themselves and you know what is different??? Nothing!!! Is what's different! I always let them have their time to talk and do their own thing without interference from moi.
But again I say, -Damn it!!!!! This Fucking pisses me off to no end!!!!!
Is everyone going to act as if this email doesn't need to be addressed? Well I can tell you if anyone else was having their character actively assassinated, they would want to speak up against the injustice being brought to themselves. Right, wouldn't most people?
Anyway I am trying not to take it too personal. But there is just a little enlightenment that needs to be shed upon this young man, If he truly believes what he has written.
And yes, he does write very "adult like". He is highly intelligent but he does get to hear his mama talk about her opinions - and that is where we think he transcribes most of this "parenting- role" differences. (almost verbatim)
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Ahhh.. The elephant in the room can't be ignored for too long. Hopefully Stepson can be mature about discussing this since he thinks he's so grown up.
i agree, if it was either of them that had been attacked they would be addressing the issue! I can see my husband pulling this stunt when our kids are older and if this issue arises in our family. GRrrrrr, I'm SO mad for you!!
Also, by not addressing the issue with his son, is basically validating his feelings and the email. NOT OKAY.
Ugh... I hate that one!
Maybe you could write an email to son and tell him how hurt you were at his feelings and then tell him what it is you admire about him.
That way, you can have your say and maybe bring him closer to you at the same time.
-d
Step up and say something. The email was as much about you as it was anything else and sitting back... and YOU SAYING NOTHING, TOO... isn't going to get the issue resolved.
So, be "the bad one" and get it addressed.
Yes, DH should do something about it, but it's your problem, too. Sometimes walking up, turning the television off and making a grand announcement, "Okay, everybody, the silence about the email has gone on long enough. It's time for a discussion!"
I agree. It does need to be dealt with. Someone has to say something. I can say that, in my experience, adults and children of the male gender seem to have more trouble addressing the elephant in the room than do adults and children of the female gender.
Have you talked with your Hubby about getting it addressed and moving on? Maybe they are both afraid to reopen the wound.
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